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WHY I USE THIS

I use this because dressing my dog in fox pajamas reminds me that life doesn’t always have to be serious and structured. Sometimes the only thing keeping me sane is watching him waddle around like a woodland toddler.  Honestly? It fixes my mood faster than therapy ever has.

HOW IT HELPS ME ON THE BRUTAL PATH

The truth is: I function better when life has moments that make me laugh for no reason. I use this when I’m rebuilding my routines — tiny habits, tiny joys, big emotional shifts. When he’s cozy, goofy, and calm… I remember I’m allowed to be, too.

IF YOU'RE LIKE ME...

…you want a life that feels playful, not performative. And your “puppy,” no matter his age, is part of how you remember what joy actually feels like.

WHY I USE THIS

I use this because I’m trying to be a responsible adult, and apparently, that includes remembering my dog drinks water like he’s been wandering the desert. It gives him what he needs before he starts giving me that betrayed look. Truth? I’m the one who needed the structure.

HOW IT HELPS ME ON THE BRUTAL PATH

This keeps me accountable to the version of myself who takes care of small needs before they turn into big problems. The truth is: I function better when both of us are hydrated and emotionally stable. It’s a tiny tool, but it shifts everything.

IF YOU'RE LIKE ME...

… you try to build a life with fewer emergencies and more ease. A calm, hydrated puppy is honestly half the lifestyle you’re chasing.

WHY I USE THIS

I wear this because winter humbles my edges, my mood, and my will to get ready. This beanie makes it look like I’m in my “soft aesthetic era,” when in reality, I’m just cold and emotionally unavailable. It’s fashion with a built-in alibi.

HOW IT HELPS ME ON THE BRUTAL PATH

I use this when I’m rebuilding my routines — small habits, big shifts. It keeps me accountable to the version of me who wants to look put together, even when I’m still piecing things together. It’s winter-proof reinvention: soft, simple, honest.

IF YOU'RE LIKE ME...

…you need one piece in your wardrobe that makes you look intentional even when your brain is on airplane mode. You want softness, simplicity, and plausible deniability.

WHY I USE THIS

I use this because my memory gets romantic when my boundaries get tired.  I forget the patterns, and I remember the potential. This is how I stop rewriting history just because someone texted “hey.”   Because patterns don’t reveal themselves all at once, they show up one interaction at a time.

One note = one date.
No spirals. No novels. Just facts.

HOW IT HELPS ME ON THE BRUTAL PATH

Boundaries: This is how I stop negotiating with red flags just because I’m lonely.
Truth: The truth is—I date better when I stop gaslighting myself.
Accountability: This keeps me honest with future-me, not hopeful-me. Unlearning: This helps me unlearn the “just see where it goes” era of my life.
Reinvention: I use this when I’m dating differently—intentionally, not impulsively.
Liberation: Freedom is knowing I don’t have to figure it out again.

IF YOU'RE LIKE ME...

…you’re not bad at dating—you’re just too generous with amnesia, and clarity hits different when it’s written down.

WHY I USE THIS

I’m great at romanticizing potential and terrible at noticing patterns in real time.  This is how I stop confusing chemistry with compatibility. Math is rude—but it’s honest.

HOW IT HELPS ME ON THE BRUTAL PATH

Boundaries: This is how I stop negotiating with red flags and calling it patience.
Truth: The truth is, attraction without accountability always costs me more later.
Accountability: This keeps me honest with myself—before I’m explaining things away. Unlearning: This helps me unlearn the “just give it time” era of my dating life.
Reinvention: I use this when I’m rebuilding how I choose people—slowly, intentionally.
Liberation: Freedom is not wondering why it felt off six weeks later.

IF YOU'RE LIKE ME...

…you’ve ever felt excited and uneasy at the same time—and ignored the uneasy part.  If you’ve ever defended someone’s behavior before they even showed consistency.  Yeah. Same.

WHY I USE THIS

I keep this with me because safety shouldn’t depend on who’s walking beside me. I want the freedom to go where I want, when I want — without pretending I’m not nervous. And yes… the flashlight alone has saved me from 12 mini heart attacks.

HOW IT HELPS ME ON THE BRUTAL PATH

This is how I enforce boundaries without apologizing for needing them. It keeps me accountable to future-me — the version who walks home confident, not cautious.  It’s not fear-based; it’s self-respect dressed as voltage.

IF YOU'RE LIKE ME...

…you’ve learned that confidence is great… but layered confidence is better. You walk differently when you know you’re not walking unarmed.

WHY I USE THIS

I use this because nothing is worse than coming back to a cold car and a colder drink after a date that already drained me. This keeps my tea hot, my mood stable, and my immune system from filing a complaint. Honestly, it’s the only man in my life who stays warm for me.

HOW IT HELPS ME ON THE BRUTAL PATH

I use this when I’m rebuilding my routines — small habits, big shifts. It helps me unlearn the “just push through it” era, where I ignored my basic needs.  Liberation tastes like electrolytes, better decisions, and a hot drink waiting for me after every date.

IF YOU'RE LIKE ME...

…you want tiny rituals that make the cold months feel less chaotic. Something simple, consistent, and warm — even when the dates aren’t.

WHY I USE THIS

I use this because my dog believes he’s the main character, but I’m the one holding the storyline together. A tangle-free leash means fewer disasters and more moments I can actually enjoy. Plus, it's the only thing keeping me from going viral for the wrong reasons.

HOW IT HELPS ME ON THE BRUTAL PATH

This is how I stop pretending I can “handle it all” without support.  A reliable leash is a boundary — for him, for me, and for the version of myself that refuses to be dragged by life (or a dog). It keeps me accountable to future-me, not burnout-me.

IF YOU'RE LIKE ME...

…you want routines that make you feel capable — not overwhelmed.  A calm walk can change your whole day.

WHY I USE THIS

I use this because my creativity deserves better than "accidentally cinematic" wobble. This gives my videos the kind of confidence I'm still growing into. If emotional steadiness were this easy, I'd be unstoppable.

HOW IT HELPS ME ON THE BRUTAL PATH

This is where boundaries meet artistry. I refuse to let burnout dictate how I show up on camera. It gives my content the steadiness I'm still practicing internally. Liberation, for me, is learning that smooth doesn't mean perfect — it just means intentional.

IF YOU'RE LIKE ME...

…you want your content to look steady even when your emotions aren’t.  You care about telling the story, not wrestling with your phone through the moment.

WHY I USE THIS

My environment shapes my behavior more than my intentions, and if I see the truth enough times, I stop negotiating with myself.  Apparently, healing made me mean—and I’m okay with that.

HOW IT HELPS ME ON THE BRUTAL PATH

Boundaries: This is how I stop running on fumes and calling it growth.
Truth: It’s not drama—it’s data, and I act accordingly.
Accountability: These keep me honest when I want to romanticize nonsense. Unlearning: This helps me unlearn the “be chill” era of my life.
Reinvention: I use these when I’m rebuilding—externally and internally.
Liberation: Freedom is not needing closure to move on.

IF YOU'RE LIKE ME...

…you don’t need another quote—you need reminders that interrupt patterns and preferably ones that don’t sugarcoat the truth.

• Vinyl / Glossy Finish

• Sticker Sheet Size: 5.1" × 6.4"

(Featured phrases include: Audit Not Chase, It’s Not Drama. It’s Data., Closure Is a Scam, Healing Made Me Mean, Stop Ghosting Your Potential)

WHY I USE THIS

I use this because my walls were giving "emotional burnout," not "creative visionary." This instantly makes my space feel intentional — even when I'm not.  Truth? Sometimes fake greenery is the only thing in my life that isn't dying.

HOW IT HELPS ME ON THE BRUTAL PATH

I use this to set boundaries with my environment — I'm done letting dull walls drain my energy.  It gives me a sense of liberation, creating a space that inspires me rather than overwhelms me.  Truth? My creativity thrives when my backdrop feels like a soft reset.

IF YOU'RE LIKE ME...

…you care about your environment because you know it shapes your clarity, your confidence, and your creativity — even if you don’t have the energy for real plants.

WHY I USE THIS

I reach for this when I need my creativity to keep up with my ambition.  It gives me the tools to design, edit, and reinvent every messy draft of my life and brand.  Honestly, half my personality at this point is just “made in Adobe.”

HOW IT HELPS ME ON THE BRUTAL PATH

This helps me unlearn the era where I believed good ideas had to be perfect on the first try. I rebuild my brand in layers — small edits, big transformations. It keeps me accountable to future-me, the one who shows up polished, not panicked.

IF YOU'RE LIKE ME...

…you have a thousand ideas and need a system that can handle all your moods, drafts, and reinventions without falling apart before you do.