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WHY I USE THIS

I use this because I’m trying to be a responsible adult, and apparently, that includes remembering my dog drinks water like he’s been wandering the desert. It gives him what he needs before he starts giving me that betrayed look. Truth? I’m the one who needed the structure.

HOW IT HELPS ME ON THE BRUTAL PATH

This keeps me accountable to the version of myself who takes care of small needs before they turn into big problems. The truth is: I function better when both of us are hydrated and emotionally stable. It’s a tiny tool, but it shifts everything.

IF YOU'RE LIKE ME...

… you try to build a life with fewer emergencies and more ease. A calm, hydrated puppy is honestly half the lifestyle you’re chasing.

WHY I USE THIS

I wear this because winter humbles my edges, my mood, and my will to get ready. This beanie makes it look like I’m in my “soft aesthetic era,” when in reality, I’m just cold and emotionally unavailable. It’s fashion with a built-in alibi.

HOW IT HELPS ME ON THE BRUTAL PATH

I use this when I’m rebuilding my routines — small habits, big shifts. It keeps me accountable to the version of me who wants to look put together, even when I’m still piecing things together. It’s winter-proof reinvention: soft, simple, honest.

IF YOU'RE LIKE ME...

…you need one piece in your wardrobe that makes you look intentional even when your brain is on airplane mode. You want softness, simplicity, and plausible deniability.

WHY I USE THIS

I keep this with me because safety shouldn’t depend on who’s walking beside me. I want the freedom to go where I want, when I want — without pretending I’m not nervous. And yes… the flashlight alone has saved me from 12 mini heart attacks.

HOW IT HELPS ME ON THE BRUTAL PATH

This is how I enforce boundaries without apologizing for needing them. It keeps me accountable to future-me — the version who walks home confident, not cautious.  It’s not fear-based; it’s self-respect dressed as voltage.

IF YOU'RE LIKE ME...

…you’ve learned that confidence is great… but layered confidence is better. You walk differently when you know you’re not walking unarmed.

WHY I USE THIS

I use this because nothing is worse than coming back to a cold car and a colder drink after a date that already drained me. This keeps my tea hot, my mood stable, and my immune system from filing a complaint. Honestly, it’s the only man in my life who stays warm for me.

HOW IT HELPS ME ON THE BRUTAL PATH

I use this when I’m rebuilding my routines — small habits, big shifts. It helps me unlearn the “just push through it” era, where I ignored my basic needs.  Liberation tastes like electrolytes, better decisions, and a hot drink waiting for me after every date.

IF YOU'RE LIKE ME...

…you want tiny rituals that make the cold months feel less chaotic. Something simple, consistent, and warm — even when the dates aren’t.

WHY I USE THIS

I use this because my dog believes he’s the main character, but I’m the one holding the storyline together. A tangle-free leash means fewer disasters and more moments I can actually enjoy. Plus, it's the only thing keeping me from going viral for the wrong reasons.

HOW IT HELPS ME ON THE BRUTAL PATH

This is how I stop pretending I can “handle it all” without support.  A reliable leash is a boundary — for him, for me, and for the version of myself that refuses to be dragged by life (or a dog). It keeps me accountable to future-me, not burnout-me.

IF YOU'RE LIKE ME...

…you want routines that make you feel capable — not overwhelmed.  A calm walk can change your whole day.

WHY I USE THIS

I use this because my creativity deserves better than "accidentally cinematic" wobble. This gives my videos the kind of confidence I'm still growing into. If emotional steadiness were this easy, I'd be unstoppable.

HOW IT HELPS ME ON THE BRUTAL PATH

This is where boundaries meet artistry. I refuse to let burnout dictate how I show up on camera. It gives my content the steadiness I'm still practicing internally. Liberation, for me, is learning that smooth doesn't mean perfect — it just means intentional.

IF YOU'RE LIKE ME...

…you want your content to look steady even when your emotions aren’t.  You care about telling the story, not wrestling with your phone through the moment.

WHY I USE THIS

I use this because my walls were giving "emotional burnout," not "creative visionary." This instantly makes my space feel intentional — even when I'm not.  Truth? Sometimes fake greenery is the only thing in my life that isn't dying.

HOW IT HELPS ME ON THE BRUTAL PATH

I use this to set boundaries with my environment — I'm done letting dull walls drain my energy.  It gives me a sense of liberation, creating a space that inspires me rather than overwhelms me.  Truth? My creativity thrives when my backdrop feels like a soft reset.

IF YOU'RE LIKE ME...

…you care about your environment because you know it shapes your clarity, your confidence, and your creativity — even if you don’t have the energy for real plants.

WHY I USE THIS

I reach for this when I need my creativity to keep up with my ambition.  It gives me the tools to design, edit, and reinvent every messy draft of my life and brand.  Honestly, half my personality at this point is just “made in Adobe.”

HOW IT HELPS ME ON THE BRUTAL PATH

This helps me unlearn the era where I believed good ideas had to be perfect on the first try. I rebuild my brand in layers — small edits, big transformations. It keeps me accountable to future-me, the one who shows up polished, not panicked.

IF YOU'RE LIKE ME...

…you have a thousand ideas and need a system that can handle all your moods, drafts, and reinventions without falling apart before you do.

WHY I USE THIS

I reach for this when life demands I speak up, but my body says, “Actually… no.” It calms the burn, the dryness, the panic — all the things that interrupt my truth-telling. If healing had a flavor, apparently it’s menthol and desperation.

HOW IT HELPS ME ON THE BRUTAL PATH

I use this when I’m unlearning the era where I pushed through everything — even pain.  It’s a tiny reinvention, a small act of accountability to the version of me who deserves better.  Liberation tastes like menthol clarity and finally listening to myself.

HOW IT HELPS ME...

…you don’t have time for your voice to disappear the moment you finally have something to say.

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