Receipt Keeper

$12.00

WHY I USE THIS

I use this because my memory gets romantic when my boundaries get tired.  I forget the patterns, and I remember the potential. This is how I stop rewriting history just because someone texted “hey.”   Because patterns don’t reveal themselves all at once, they show up one interaction at a time.

One note = one date.
No spirals. No novels. Just facts.

HOW IT HELPS ME ON THE BRUTAL PATH

Boundaries: This is how I stop negotiating with red flags just because I’m lonely.
Truth: The truth is—I date better when I stop gaslighting myself.
Accountability: This keeps me honest with future-me, not hopeful-me.
Unlearning: This helps me unlearn the “just see where it goes” era of my life.
Reinvention: I use this when I’m dating differently—intentionally, not impulsively.
Liberation: Freedom is knowing I don’t have to figure it out again.

IF YOU’RE LIKE ME…

…you’re not bad at dating—you’re just too generous with amnesia, and clarity hits different when it’s written down.